Mia's Homecoming video

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Where does it go?


FUNDRAISER FOR RUTHANNE  has 6 days left and we are half way to our goal. So far 6 of the hidden gift cards have been found. The lucky winners are Jenny Capell, Darla Stout, Jennifer Frampton, Meg Thunell, HEather Fillmore, and Jan Brodinski. If you are one of these winners please email me at keciajcox@msn.com to claim your prize. THere are still 2 hidden gift cards left and everyone who donates is entered into the drawing for the apple tv as well. 

We are so thankful for all who have donated and shared so far! We would love to see this grid completely blacked out for Ruthanne! 
The children like Mia, and Ruthanne, who (were) are living in orphanages in foreign countries are literally living on borrowed time. Whether it be health needs or malnutrition, or age, it really does matter that they get home to their families as quick as possible. For the children in these baby homes, they are given a time limit to when their chance for a family is past. When their chance for life, has past. 
When children turn 4 they are sent from the baby homes to adult mental institutions....a fate that no child deserves...

Mia turned 4 the same week we committed to her and was scheduled to be transferred to the adult mental institution ...where she would likely have died within the first year there. 
This is the post I wrote in 2011.....This post is why these children do not have years and years to wait for someone to come get them. 
Ruthanne is 3 and facing that same fate without the help of her family coming for her, she too would have had to take a ride that she never deserved. so please help us raise the rest of the money the Engers need to bring her home!!

(REPOST from Mia's adoption blog 2011)

What is this car all about? Mia is so eager to know.
Where does it take you?
Where does it go?


There have been many times while we have been here that I have really been hit by the frightening reality of what could have been.

Mia wants so badly to go for a ride in one of the many cars she sees coming and going from the orphanage each day.
She knows enough about it to know that it takes you somewhere. Somewhere new.

Had we not found her and come for her when we did, Mia would still have gotten to go for a ride in one of these cars but it would have been to a very different place than she will be going on Friday.

I can't bear the thought of what could have been for her.
She could have woken up one morning and thought it was a day like any other, then to her surprise she would have been taken outside and placed in a car.


She would have been excited, thinking this meant her dream had come true. She was finally going to be able to go for a ride in one of these magical machines that took you somewhere.
She would be thinking her turn had finally come,


maybe on the other side of this car ride was a family waiting for her...

But instead she would have been taken to a place like this....


My friend reposted this video yesterday (one of Mia Kareen's advocates had made this video when they were raising money for our sweet girl...even before we knew she was out there) and watching it again with Mia's picture at the end just really hit me hard. The tears were flowing as the it really sank in that THIS would have been Mia's reality. It has always been hard to imagine such a thing really happening, but being here with Mia now just haunts me to the core, to know that she would have been taken to live her life in a place like this and she could have been there right now.


She would have been taken away from the ladies who had cared for her all her life. Taken away from the only friends she had ever known, and the only life she had ever known, only to be left alone in a world where she did not deserve to be, in a mental institution.
She would not have understood why she was brought there.
Was it something she did?
Was it forever?
She would not have understood that the ONLY reason she was brought to this place was because she had down syndrome. It was not her fault that she was there.
Only a few weeks after committing to her, we learned that she was already scheduled to be transferred soon. Fortunately the director at the orphanage was willing to keep her at the baby house until we came. But had we not found her when we did, she would have been moved to this horrible, unimaginable place... forever.

As I have watched her these past few weeks and have seen the light she possesses shining through
I can not bear to think that instead of the sparkle shining through her eyes, she would have lost all hope and that sparkle would never have been found again.
Thanks to Andrea and Reece's Rainbow, the many people who advocated for Kareen to help us find her, the many people who prayed for her, the many people who donated and raised money for her, the many family and friends who have supported us and loved her from the beginning, and for the hand of the Lord placing us on this path,
Mia Kareen will leave these walls in 3 days...
FOREVER....
she will get to take that car ride she has been waiting for

and finally see what is on the other side of these walls

but this one will take her where all her dreams can come true.


This car ride will take her to a place she deserves to go


Please check out our fundraiser for RUTHANNE and see how you can help literally save a child!

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